1. You are doing a great job 

Seriously. Even when you feel like you're winging it, your child sees love, safety, and warmth in you. Motherhood doesn’t come with a rulebook, and that’s okay. Advice for new moms? Trust yourself. You’re exactly who your child needs. 

2. Love matters more than perfection 

Skipped bedtime stories because you were exhausted? Ordered takeout instead of making a healthy meal? Gave in to an extra episode of cartoons? It’s fine. At the end of the day, what your child remembers most is love—not whether dinner was homemade. 

3. No one is as perfect as they seem on social media 

That mom with the spotless house, happy children, and perfectly styled hair? She has laundry piles somewhere. And she’s probably using filters. Advice for new moms—stop comparing. Every mother is figuring things out in her own way. 

4. It’s okay not to love every moment 

Motherhood is wonderful, but let’s be honest—some parts are just hard. The tantrums, the sleepless nights, the endless "why" questions... it’s normal to feel frustrated. Loving your child doesn’t mean loving every single moment. 

5. Taking a break doesn’t make you a bad mom 

A solo coffee run, a quiet walk, or even locking yourself in the bathroom for five minutes of peace—take the break. Advice for new moms—you can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself makes you a better mom. 

6. Your instincts are more powerful than any parenting book 

There’s a lot of advice for new moms out there. Some of it is great, but none of it knows your child like you do. If something feels right (or wrong), trust your gut. You are your child’s expert. 

7. You don’t have to do it alone 

Whether it’s your partner, your parents, a friend, or a fellow mom at the park—lean on your people. Find your village. Even superheroes need a sidekick. 

8. It’s okay to cry in the pantry (or anywhere else) 

Sometimes, motherhood is overwhelming. Tears happen. Hide in the pantry, take a deep breath, then come back stronger. No shame in needing a moment. 

9. Your child isn’t looking for a perfect mom—just you 

Your child doesn’t care if your hair is messy or if you forgot to pack the perfect snack. They just want you. Advice for new moms? Let go of perfection. You are enough just as you are. 

10. You are not alone 

Every mom has been where you are—feeling unsure, tired, or overwhelmed. Advice for new moms—reach out, ask for help, and remember: You’ve got this. 

And if you ever need a little extra support, Dibber International Preschools and Nurseries is here for you. With a warm, nurturing environment inspired by Nordic values, we focus on helping children grow, learn, and thrive—while giving parents peace of mind.  

Because at the end of the day, parenting is easier when you have the right people by your side.